Going to take his opportunity to thank all my friends for still being my friends even though my life is drama 99.999% of the time.
Thank you for having long winded phone conversations
Thank you for letting me whinge over drinks
Thank you for encouraging me that calories don’t count on the bad days
Thank you for pretending like my huge screw ups are “not a big deal”
The other night I had a particularly bad day, nothing was going my way, had a lot of decisions to make, a lot of things just wrong wrong that I couldn’t fix and after my 6th Jagerbomb and 19th french martini… I broke. I don’t break often, I usually suck it up and carry on but .. I had a miniature melt down and sometimes we need those! Anyway..they came with me in a cab and stayed with me until I fell asleep.. even though they had someone to be going to see.
Just before I had a friend call me and say they couldn’t speak to me anymore. Now this is a guy who I have been friends with for roughly 6 years .. Their partner of less than 3 months was intimidated by me and questioned our relationship so they were no longer allowed to talk to me..
Now I am not exactly known for my awesome relationship example… possibly because I am not in a relationship and haven’t been in a serious one in about 4ish years…but it really bugs me that when people get into a relationship.. they vanish of the face of the earth. A lot of my friends are guys, and most of them stop talking to me once they have girlfriends.. if someone asked me to stop talking to someone just because we were together … that would be the end of that. Take me for me or take your business elsewhere. Unless there was a really good reason.. maybe I am just a bad influence… it wouldn’t be the first time I have heard that. If you are in a relationship with someone and you can’t trust them to talk to another girl… give up. Cut your losses, get a big bowl of ice-cream and on to the next one.